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May 19

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Pro wedding tip: Elope Gorgeous Florida elopement captured by AoE's newest vendor @hazography_ 🦩If you need an elopement photographer in the Sunshine state, she's your girl ☀️ Hit the link in bio to find the best elopement vendors in the game Photo: @hazography_
Hair & Makeup: @studiobride & @hello_cathee
Dress: @amazingbridescouture
Sneaks: @vans

Apr 29

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Eloping is a sighing sea.
gauzy streaks of air on a hot evening.
dew drops on china from the jungle's palms.
remembering how it started. The most precious gift of eloping is the awesome suspension of time. Photo courtesy of @tulumpluton / @lucasflorxs
Venue @wildtulum
Video @sebastian_galdeano_ & @photodanielgastaldi
Florals & decor @floristamarydiaz & @stephtllz
Rentals @archiverentals
DJ @av_riviera_events
Planning @tulumconciergeama

Apr 25

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I think it's safe to say that 2022 is the year of the city hall elopement, and to that I say: It's about damn time. There's no ceiling for my love for a courthouse ceremony, which is why I dedicated a whole chapter in "Your Wedding, Your Way" to pulling one off. It's chock full of ideas on: 1. What to wear, like this fabulous pantsuit captured in all its glory by AoE vendor and talented lady @leandracreativecophoto 2. How to have what I call a "Destination Courthouse Elopement," including the 5 most gorgeous courthouses in the U.S. 🏛 3. How to celebrate after: Go to brunch, order takeout for a picnic on some city steps, or hit up a dive bar for celebratory shots with the locals 🥃 Cheers to having #yourweddingyourway #artofeloping #cityhallelopement #cityhallwedding #cityhallweddingphotographer #whitepantsuit #westvillagenyc #weddingpantsuit

Apr 7

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Hey friends. Here's some ~authentic~ 1980s Kodak film for ya. Been serving since 1983 what's up. Photo by Dad. *edit: Dress by Mom. So yeah I got hacked on here a little over a week ago and nothing is more boring than talking about being hacked (kinda like telling someone about a dream you had, sorry if that's you but actually it's me every morning #gemini) but I've been having a really shitty time with the Facebook backend of things. As many of you know, it's deemed necessary to link your biz IG to your FB if you want to do ads or boost posts. And, it uses whatever you decide your FB was at the time you chose to go for it and make your IG a business account in order to do so. My FB was a personal account, and currently I STILL can't access it after being hacked and getting my IG back, cool cool. So I'm currently trying to sort that out. Yawn. However, when I got hacked on IG, the hacker/bot weaseled its way to my FB Page and changed my status from being an Admin to an Employee, so I can't see my own billing. Clever. I'm trying to log in on FB. I can't. They claim to send a code to my phone and after hours of trying on multiple browsers across two weeks—no code. So. I'm still working on this. I totally value this platform and will always love it for the connections it's provided, as a bunch of you know that my book exists largely because of you and my brute outreach on DMs, but right now it's very, very hard for me to trust this platform in any way. I'm going to try and continue to resolve things on the backend, but will be taking a break from posting here while I do so. I feel at once very betrayed and like I should've known better, since of course nothing we do here is owned by us, it's owned by Mark Z. And it can disappear at any time. That's the lesson. And it sucks. If you're a vendor, get yourselves a website (Wix is easy and great), establish an email list, send a newsletter like @thestylistabroad and start a blog. You own those. You don't own this.

Mar 30

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I regret to inform you that I did not, in fact, win a silver Mercedes, but I did get this account back in almost the same condition it was stolen in, so I consider that a solid W 🥊 And, a tip! If you get hacked and have a second account, and aren't hearing from IG via the regular self-help steps they offer on the app: Go to your second account and shake your phone very, very hard, like you do in Notes to undo an action. A box will pop up where you can message IG and attach screenshots. Thank you to my brother @andy0lsen for going to the depths of Reddit for that one. ❤️ Reddit. I've included a screenshot of what that looks like here, but first please enjoy some perfectly filmy images from @mirandatatephotography 🤍 I'm still waiting on my Bitcoin payout so stay tuned there.

Feb 28

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Photo by @maleyphoto. Many of you know his phenomenal work and follow him on here. He's in Ukraine; his family is not. Men ages 18-60 have been ordered to stay and fight. The borders have seen more than 500,000 people who've fled their homes in Ukraine since the war started 5 days ago (@unitednations). Many arrived in Ukraine from Afghanistan last year, as it was the only country that would grant them a visa. Now they are refugees again (@aljazeeraenglish). If you feel compelled to help, I've linked a Google Doc in my bio from @globalshaperscommunity listing ways you can donate or show support as a foreigner. There's also @wckitchen from the superhuman @chefjoseandres who has set up along the border to distribute hot meals to refugees ➡️ Link to donate is in @wckitchen bio or wck.org 🇺🇦 #chefsforukraine #ukrainefreedom #freeukraine

Feb 28

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They eloped ❤️ If you're in love with the idea of a Positano elopement, first hire a fabulous Italian photographer like @maisonpestea 📸 Then check out page 80 of my book for everything you need to know for pulling off an elopement on the Amalfi Coast, including when to go, the best way to get there from the airport, and the hidden beach you have got to visit—via a romantic boat ride, of course
🇮🇹 Saluti! #yourweddingyourway

Feb 22

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This lil Tiffany Blue gem is finally out there for consumption. Please eat it up 🍰 Link's where it likes to hang out upstairs
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I hope my book finds its way to couples who want to do things a little differently, maybe get their feet wet in the rebel fringes of the wedding industry. The book offers 11 different ways to do just that.
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This book encapsulates two (pre-pandemic) years of interviewing couples; thousands of tabs left open for research (where my tab queens at?); and a lot of cold-DMing elopement vendors (thank you @alexmari_ , @thestylistabroad, and @joshua_kane_photography for being some of the first to pick up the phone).
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I have many hopes for this book, but my biggest is that it gives those couples who feel trapped by tradition the confidence to step back. And not only consider themselves, but prioritize themselves. Your marriage day should be a reflection of your values as a couple and no one else's, whether it looks like a backyard wedding or jaunt to Scotland. You're in charge.
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Cheers to having Your Wedding, Your Way.
📸@reneecgagephoto ❤️

Feb 18

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When the alt text reads "vintage '70s gown seen on the deck of a circa-1974 cabin" and the string lights decide to just shine even brighter
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Loving this elopement trend of all things vintage. Elopements in general are far less wasteful than big weddings, and when you go for a vintage dress instead of buying new, well, that's just the icing on a single-layer elopement cake 🍰 Knockout photos by @roamingsouth_photography

Feb 11

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Not all sapphires wear blue... This delicate, pinky-peach gem is called a Padparadscha sapphire and we're in love. This extremely rare stone pairs well with diamonds, as seen here from our friends and neighbors @alxandcompany, whose custom design features an Old Mine Cut diamond and 18k yellow gold ✨ Most commonly found in Sri Lanka, the word "Padparadscha" comes from the Sinhalese word for Lotus blossom, which shares similar coloring 🌸 Happy Valentine's Engagement Weekend everyone

Feb 5

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We'll keep this subtle bouquet explosion + gold sequins look and call it "Gatsby Boho." It's a thing. Florals: @flowersbyalana
Gown: @sewromanticdesigns
Photographer: @emilyskyephotography
Jewelry: @ringedportland

Feb 4

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Perspective: A point of view. Depth. The ability to determine what is important and what isn't. Photography and eloping have more in common than bringing the day into clear focus. If you're planning to elope, find an elopement photographer as soon as you can. She or he will be a tremendous part of your story and your day. Photo: @mattashton_photo
Video: @erivefilms
Makeup: @sydneymakeup_sandra
Hair: @deelushhair
Design: @darlingevents_
Celebrant: @just.married.by.rach

Jan 25

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Something I learned today: In Scotland, a vendor is called a supplier. Something I was reminded of today: The sheer kindness of someone I met one time at a wedding conference in Vegas, whose seaside home in Scotland I showed up to on a cold and misty night three months later, with a flat tire. After missing an elopement on the Isle of Skye organized by ... her. Anne Widdop is not only kind and deeply forgiving, she was also an early force in the world of nontraditional ceremonies. More than a decade ago she left her role as Global Director at IBM to launch @fuzeceremonies, now a leading network of celebrants that conducts a variety of ceremonies in the UK and abroad. At the link up top, read about her career change, lessons learned, advice for couples, and insight into new trends (we're lookin' at you, grooms). 📸: the ever so talented @susieolzenphotography #scottishelopement #scottishcelebrant #scottishelopementphotographer #isleofskye #isleofskyecelebrant #fuzeceremonies #tartanweddings #scottishhighlands #scotlandelopement #scotlandelopementphotographer #artofeloping

Jan 17

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Petition to make Monday elopements a thing 💌 These lovely cool kids eloped on a Monday because it fell on the date they got engaged a year prior, and also fell on the date they first got together way back when. There really are no rules but your own⚡️ Photo: @mattashton_photo
Celebrant: @jacqua.celebrant

Jan 15

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For a brief moment during my 7th year of life I fantasized about my wedding colors, which would be peach and teal. I distinctly remember that this fantasy—featuring a color palette directly inspired by the booths at the local Dairy Queen—crystallized at the mall while flipping through the enormous wedding dress pattern books at Jo-Ann's Fabrics, back when the name was still hyphenated and the store sold only fabric, patterns, and sewing paraphernalia. The wedding fantasy swiftly dissolved and was left behind in the mall parking lot. It seemed too intangible to my 7-year-old brain that one day I'd be carrying a bouquet of peach-colored roses in front of the people at my church, wearing a bulky dress that seemed exhausting to pin together and create. All that to say, if my 7-year-old self had known what an elopement was, I sure as hell would've rather been planning that. Cheers to everyone out there making the nontraditional not just the norm, but the dream. 📷 @theopulenceau

Jan 6

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A 10-person reception demands this level of extra, and truly, this intimate Indian wedding should inspire us all to drink up the romance and burn the good candles and buy the red roses and use the antique Mercury rimmed glasses. On a Thursday. On any day. 🌹 Endless magic shot by my oh-so talented friend @mateihorvath | Flowers & Decor by magicians @flowersbyedgar + @maciooliveira + @finelinencreation | Venue in the heart of the Redwoods @mountainterrace | Videographer @iqvideography | DJ @djsalim26 + @deejaygagan